Friday, February 4, 2011

Shadee


why should a person get married..
after lots of discussions and introspection i cud figure out a few good reasons :

1 After a certain age it wud be difficult to find better matches because:
a) As we all know about the skewed sex ratio in India, most of the eligible  women are already committed by the time.
Assumptions: Women are not waiting too long to get committed as men  do, a girl is most probable to get married by 29 max. while a man may wait  up to 35max.
b) Most-eligible women would be picked up earliest so wuts left would be  lacking quality as well.

2 Even if we didnt knew the importance of algebra we did studied it accepting it  just as part of  system, while i was still thinking why we need to study this  boring thing , mathematics teacher had finished off the chapter. But some  how i managed to learn it. any way the point is algebra came out to be quit a  use full tool. Even though i didnt realize this when i was learning it. By this analogy in present day situation i have no idea why should i get married, but i can go ahead with it, accepting it just as part of system.

3 When i learn algebra i was able to realize the potential behind the stuff. may be if  i never did learn it the benefits of this mathematical tool would have been  unknown to me. The same analogy could be applied in this situation too.


Elaborated above are 3 good reasons to get married at this stage, even though am not getting the feel of it. But still, not convincing enough.....

may be i'll need some more time to figure it out...

Or just follow your heart. Will know when its time, to just take a leap of faith.

3 comments:

  1. With financial independence at hand even a girl thinks its useless to get married. Just imagine ... a girl say is 26, she is earning 50k/month, spends lavishly on stuff she likes, goes places she wishes so she thinks why the hell should one get married(arranged) unless one finds the right partner at any age which can be well after 30.
    We r u confused generation...

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  2. Dude Marriage....as a blog topic is not ur cup of either coffee or tea....u nid to experience it and then write

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  3. ya its the cultural transition ......
    we r all part of it

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